As a professional in the wedding market I see more weddings in just a few months than most people do over the course of a lifetime. Generally, I don't involve myself as much in the overall planning process - but I do experience the final product. If you are planning your wedding without any help, your first ideas will come solely from what you have seen from weddings you have been to. If you are using a wedding planner, they will most likely choose what has worked best in t